Relationship Coaching School Podcast

Jayson breaks down the problems with one common strategy—people-pleasing and how it relates to the core inner conflict. What are the childhood roots of people-pleasing? Why do people-pleasers become resentful? Why do integrated individuals make better coaches and therapists? Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to stop betraying yourself in the context of your relationship.

Timestamps:

• 1:37 - Client example
• 5:43 - The childhood roots of people-pleasing
• 12:04 - Betraying yourself to fit in
• 14:46 - Why people-pleasers become resentful
• 18:23 - Why integrated people make better coaches and therapists

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Jayson sits down with Duane Mullner to talk about the role of the therapist or coach. Why is the here and now so important? Can clients help their coaches and therapists? How should you prepare for a session? What should you do with a client who isn’t making progress? How can you help clients who are stuck in victimhood? Don’t miss this chance to hear Duane Mullner share the wisdom he has accumulated over his long career.

Timestamps:

• 6:44 - What is the role of the therapist/coach
• 15:30 - What’s going on between therapist and client?
• 20:31 - Why is the here and now so important?
• 27:39 - Don’t make resistance wrong
• 34:35 - How clients help coaches and therapists
• 41:46 - How to prepare for a session
• 44:51 - Making progress with clients
• 54:18 - How to help people who are in their victimhood
• 1:07:00 - Should you trust clients to treat you about their problems?

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Jayson breaks down how to coach yourself using AI and shares a variety of example prompts. Can AI offer constructive criticism? What can it do with astrology and Gene Keys? Can it give you a tough-love wake-up call? Stick around until the end to learn how you can use AI to get the most out of your therapy sessions!

Timestamps:

• 2:40 - Ways to use AI as a client
• 4:52 - Using AI for constructive criticism
• 7:50 - Astrology
• 10:27 - Tough love
• 13:36 - Getting the most out of therapy

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Jayson discusses the role of AI in the therapy and coaching space. Will AI replace therapists and coaches? Can it ever be better than a real coach or therapist? What are the downsides of using AI to coach yourself? Stay tuned until the end of the episode to find out how you can thrive—rather than just survive—as a coach or therapist in the age of AI.

Timestamps:

• 5:42 - Price point
• 9:10 - Who will lose their jobs?
• 12:53 - What AI can't replace
• 19:24 - AI and intuition
• 23:47 - How should coaches and therapists adapt to AI?

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If you want to get the most out of therapy or coaching, it’s important to know how to be a great client. In this episode, Jayson shares his experience of being a client and breaks down how you can make sure you’re getting the results you want. Is it ever okay not to make progress? Learn how to advocate for yourself, prepare for your sessions, stay accountable to friends and family, and much more in this episode!

Timestamps:

• 1:40 - Is it okay not to make progress?
• 4:01 - Jayson's story
• 8:51 - How to be a good client
• 15:53 - When to have a frank conversation with your coach or therapist

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